Jenna and Chris

Jenna + Chris
Worldwide
Wedding Tour

For Jenna
For our first anniversary
May 18, 2026
Contents

The Tour

  1. ·Prologue · The DecisionLate 2023
  2. IVancouver · Full SendMay 17, 2025
  3. IISquamish · Two CeremoniesMay 18, 2025
  4. IIIA New ArrivalMay 24, 2025
  5. IVConnecticut · Summer by the LakesAugust 2, 2025
  6. VEngland · Windsor & HertfordshireAugust 30, 2025
  7. VIItaly · HoneymoonAug 31 – Sep 10, 2025
  8. VIISicily · The BuddymoonSep 10 – 15, 2025
  9. VIIITaormina · La Dolce Far NienteSep 15 – 17, 2025
  10. ·Epilogue · Summer BellaFebruary 5, 2026
Prologue

The Decision

Late 2023 through summer 2024

We met in late 2023 at a festival up in the BC mountains.

When we started seeing each other, we could tell immediately there was something unique between us. This had the potential to go the distance.

Early days
Skiing in Whistler

Over the next year we vacationed in Mexico together, attended a festival in Texas for the solar eclipse, flew to England to spend time with Jenna's family, and headed out to Connecticut to spend time with Chris's. Somewhere between airports, ski lifts, festivals, road trips, and a lot of long conversations, this thing turned into something way bigger than either of us expected.

Mexico
Solar eclipse in Texas

The trips piled up. UK with Jenna's family. New York with Chris's.

UK with Jenna's family
New York with Chris's family

In August 2024 we drove down to Burning Man together. Jenna's first time on the playa. After a magical and, by Burning Man standards, surprisingly smooth week, the best of Chris's nine Burning Mans by far, we headed home. The exodus was quick and easy for once. Somewhere in the Nevada desert, driving back in our RV, we decided we would get married. Not a romantic proposal under the stars. A conversation in a dusty camper cruising at fifty miles an hour, and somehow it felt exactly right.

When we started planning, gathering everyone in one place didn't feel right. Our friends and family are scattered across different countries and different chapters of our lives. So instead of bringing the people to the party, we decided to bring the party to the people.

Our friends and family started calling it the tour. By Connecticut, they had the shirts. By England, a second set.

On the playa, August 2024. The trip we drove home from deciding to get married.

On the playa, August 2024. The trip we drove home from deciding to get married.

Burning Man, August 2024
Chapter One

Vancouver

Full Send
May 17, 2025
The Invitation
Invitation

We started in Vancouver. It's the city we call home and the community that brought us together, so it felt right to kick everything off here. This one was for our chosen family.

On the staircase

Neither of us wanted the conventional white dress or black tuxedo, so we went vibrant and custom. Jenna's dress was made by Chrissy Wai-Ching at Wai Ching Studio in Seattle. Chris's suit was made by Zahir Rajani at The Sartorial Shop in Vancouver.

The plan

The plan was, relatively, simple on paper. Get legally married on Friday by taking a helicopter up to the Tantalus Ridge above Squamish with our closest friends. Saturday: an outdoor garden party at the Treehouse, our friend Kryshan's incredible home, followed by a party into the night.

Vancouver's bipolar spring weather had other ideas. Torrential rain pushed the helicopter to Sunday and forced the garden party indoors. Since we technically weren't married yet, Saturday inadvertently turned into one giant bachelor and bachelorette party.

The Treehouse, transformed

The reception space before speeches

The reception area set for dinner and speeches. The stairway down to the dance floor, framed by the tree arch Dune had built for us.

The reception area before guests arrived
Stairway down with the tree arch

With the help of an army of creative and resourceful friends, the Treehouse was transformed. Handmade decorations, candles, draping, flowers, our friend Pux playing acoustic guitar, cocktails, an incredible tree arch sculpture from Dune, food from Kara, and a beautiful cake from Kat.

Most of the guests were our mutual friends from BC. Others came from different chapters of our lives, some flying in from across the world to be there.

Friends
Friends
Friends

Pux on guitar

Pux played a beautiful acoustic set. The room slowly settled in, taking in the realization that we were actually getting married, before quieting down for the speeches.

Pux on guitar
Dancing

The dance floor filling in after Pux's set.

The speeches

Speeches from Chris, Efe, Alex, and Gary that managed to be heartfelt and funny in the same breath.

Speech
Speech
Speech
Speech

The room shifted between laughter and tears, depending on whose turn it was at the microphone. Old stories came out. A few embarrassing ones. The kind that only your closest friends will tell on you in front of a packed room of one hundred and sixty people.

Speech moment
Speech reactions

After the last speech wound down, the room exhaled. People left their seats, found each other in the corners, hugged the speakers, refilled glasses.

Embrace after the speeches
Catching up between courses

The food, the cake

Kara cooked for the entire room. Bowls of delicious food down the long table, family-style platters of roasted vegetables and skewers. A wonderful meal to provide energy for the ensuing evening.

Plates from Kara's kitchen
The dinner table from above

Kat had been working on the cake for days. Layered, fresh flowers pressed into the buttercream, standing tall on the kitchen island when we walked in. She made it colourful to match the spring theme of the party.

Kat's cake from the side
Kissing by the cake

The forced move indoors actually gave the evening an intimacy that the planned garden party never would have had.

Our friend Alyssa graciously volunteered to be our wedding planner and worked tirelessly to make the whole event come together. Kryshan opened his home and basically lived in event-host mode for days. Without those two, none of it would have happened.

Then it shifted.

Chapter I, Continued

The After

Roeland, Berkan, and Karim, our bartenders for the night, hoisted Jenna into the air over the signature cocktail station. The kind of unscripted moment that defined the evening.

Jenna lifted by the bartenders

Dinner and toasts ended. The intimate gathering turned into a full Burner Wedding Reception. The evening guests started arriving. Welcome pictures in front of a flower-laden heart were taken. The DJs started spinning, art installations lit up, packed dance floors, and a beautifully controlled amount of chaos. Our friend Carly had worked hard to design the lighting so each room had its own unique flavor.

The lounge spaces upstairs filled with friends sinking into couches, swapping stories, kicking off their shoes. Down the hall, Harry's makeshift Elvis chapel was already drawing a queue of guests waiting to be married off.

Lounge upstairs
Friends in the back room

Elvis at the Wedding Chapel

Harry showed up as Elvis and started performing spontaneous shotgun weddings for our guests, marrying off half the dance floor by the end of the night.

Harry as Elvis
A shotgun wedding
At the Elvis chapel

Late in the night, the dance floor at full tilt.

Hands forming hearts everywhere we turned. A house full of love and energy.

Hearts everywhere
Hearts everywhere
Hearts everywhere

The DJ booth, the announcement

By peak hour, more than one hundred and sixty people were packed into the Treehouse.

DJs playing the wedding song
Chris and Jenna making an announcement

The call from Squamish

Earlier in the evening, just as the party was kicking off, we got a call from the helicopter company. A weather window was opening up the following day, and we needed to be in Squamish by morning if we wanted to fly to the Tantalus Ridge.

We knew it would be a challenge after a big night, but we were excited to make our plan happen.

Around six in the morning we slipped out to get a couple of hours of sleep while the party kept going downstairs. The last guests rolled out around seven-thirty.

Chapter Two

Squamish

Two Ceremonies, One Day
May 18, 2025

After almost no sleep, we threw a few things in the car and pointed it north to Squamish.

Nate went to bed earlier than the rest of us, which meant he graciously offered to drive Alex, Efe, Jenna, and Chris up the Sea-to-Sky in the morning. The weather was still threatening, but there were hints of sunshine breaking through along the highway. Just enough to keep the hope alive.

Driving up the Sea-to-Sky

The original ten o'clock flight was pushed back. Then pushed back again. We sat in our jackets, checking the sky every twenty minutes. At one point the pilot warned us we might have to settle for a short flight along the Squamish River instead of the full ascent to Tantalus Ridge.

Chapter II, Continued

The River Ceremony

We decided to officially get married while we waited for the weather window. Antje, our legal officiant, met us at a wide bend next to the Squamish river, set against a beautiful backdrop of the mountains.

By the Squamish River

While we waited on a final call, Antje performed a short, simple but sweet ceremony, and we legally tied the knot.

Antje officiating
The vows

The moment we were legally married. On a wide bend in the river, in front of our closest friends.

Married by the river

Our small team after the river ceremony. Alex, Efe, Nate, Antje, and us. Thrilled, slightly surprised this had just happened.

The group by the river
Chapter II, Continued

The Wait

Waiting at Backcountry Brewery
Waiting at Backcountry Brewery

We got a bite to eat at Backcountry Brewery to wait it out. Officially married now, but still hoping the clouds would clear enough to let us pull off the original plan.

Chapter II, Continued

The Flight

A few hours later, the call came in. Weather had cleared just enough to fly. By four in the afternoon, we gathered at the helipad. Helmets, headsets, layers, smiles. A long morning of waiting had finally turned into a go. Our pilot from No Limits Helicopters turned out to have camped at a Burning Man camp near ours on the playa. Small world. Soon we were airborne, climbing through breaking clouds with Mount Tantalus ahead and the valley dropping away below. Within minutes everything in sight was glaciers, alpine ridges, and pure wilderness.

The group together at the helipad

Lifting off from the helipad toward Tantalus Ridge.

The helicopter banked hard out of the valley and the entire window filled with mountains. Snowfields, glacier ice, ridges. Breathtaking and unreal.

Climbing through the clouds
Over the glaciers
Chapter II, Continued

Tantalus Ridge

The landing site, Tantalus Ridge behind
Chapter II, Continued

The Glacier Ceremony

Efe, Alex, and Nate took turns officiating and giving speeches.

Nate officiating
Efe and Alex giving speeches

Jenna and Chris exchange their vows

Deeply emotional, full of love and connection. We recited the vows we had personally written to each other, which we had saved hoping we would be able to make the plan happen. This was a moment we would remember for the rest of our lives. The five of us in the middle of a glacier, with nothing else for miles.

Reading the vows
Exchanging vows on the ridge
Exchanging vows on the ridge

Chris sabraged a bottle of champagne we had brought to toast in celebration.

Post-sabrage
Post-sabrage

The sabrage.

The Rings

We had designed our wedding bands with our friend Vlad. He had etched the Tantalus mountain range onto them, planning for this moment. We were overjoyed we could actually make it happen.

The rings
The rings

Above the clouds, on a mountain we'd nearly given up on reaching that morning.

Above the clouds
Chapter Three

A New Arrival

May 24, 2025

The post-party clean-up took a tremendous effort from all of our friends. The Treehouse had to be returned to a home. Candles, draping, flowers, lighting rigs, the whole reception kit. We were so grateful for our friends who showed up and volunteered their time after a long night.

In the days after, we were just beginning to process everything that had happened. Two ceremonies, one helicopter, a hundred and sixty people, everything coming together against all odds. The magical weekend that had somehow happened. We thought the year was about to slow down.

Less than a week later, we found out. Jenna was pregnant. We could not have scripted this better.

We would wait another couple of months before we said anything publicly. That happened to coincide with the next event, in Lakeville, Connecticut, where Chris grew up.

The first ultrasound
Vancouver to Lakeville map
Chapter Four

Connecticut

Summer by the Lakes
August 2, 2025
The Invitation
Invitation

Immediate family in the tour shirts Justin made.

The family in tour shirts

A few months later, we brought the celebration to Lakeville, Connecticut, for Chris's family and the people who shaped him growing up. The weekend was built around the town Chris grew up in, and the events were held at the Salisbury School campus. Chris had gone to school there, played on those fields, eaten in that dining hall, sat through chapel for years. Bringing everyone back felt strange and good.

Justin had designed the shirts like the bootleg Grateful Dead shirts he and Chris used to print and sell on lot: same typeface, same layout, with the tour dates and city names on the back.

Everyone wore them at some point during the weekend.

Chapter IV, Continued

The Setup

Since the event was far from Vancouver, Chris's family came together to make this happen.

Chris's mom Jude basically ran point on the whole weekend. Amity handled the flowers, pulling stems and greenery from around the property all week. Rob built the welcome sign by hand, cut and painted with our names and the date, and set it at the foot of the driveway the morning the first guests arrived.

Jude running point
Amity arranging the flowers
Rob building the sign
Chapter IV, Continued

The Boathouse

Pizza by the Lake

Friday night kicked off with a casual welcome dinner at the Salisbury School Boathouse on Twin Lakes, just across from the campus where Chris grew up.

This was the same spot where Chris's brother Erik had been married eighteen years earlier. A bit of nostalgia for the family. Full circle.

The boathouse opens

The boathouse opened wide onto the lake. Old wooden beams overhead, string lights threaded between the rafters, the dock just outside the back doors.

Inside the boathouse
Inside the boathouse

Friends and family rolling in from across the US. The pizza truck from New Haven had pulled around back, and the first guests were already arriving with kids in tow.

Guests arriving with kids
The pizza line at sunset

A welcome to people who had traveled a long way to be there. The sun set over the water and the lights came on along the docks.

Guests by the lake
Sunset over Twin Lakes

Drinks, music, kids running around the docks. Conversations stretched late around the firepit. The kind of August night that justified the whole drive out.

The big group at sunset
Chapter IV, Continued

The Underground House

The Underground House sits at the edge of the property, half-buried into the hillside, glass on the front, the rest tucked into the earth. Breakfast on the patio Saturday morning before the main event.

Breakfast on the patio
A quiet morning at the Underground House

The room filled up steadily through the morning. Generations side by side on the couches, kids weaving between adults' legs, coffee always on.

Family gathering
Family gathering
Family gathering
Chapter IV, Continued

Belin Lodge

The main event was at Belin Lodge the next afternoon. Chris's parents Rob and Jude, his brothers Erik and Justin, sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts, uncles, and old friends came in from across the US and beyond.

The family, both sides

More of the family rolling in. Erik and his kids, Justin and his, a dozen cousins, and the aunts and uncles from the Hansen clan, who came in from across the eastern seaboard.

Family arriving
Family arriving

Kevin, Chris's best friend from high school and the weekend's unofficial photographer, briefly on the other side of the lens.

Kevin, unofficial photographer

A few of the people Chris had known the longest. Childhood friends, classmates, neighbors from down the road. Some of them had met Jenna at Christmas, others were meeting her now for the first time.

Guests
Guests
Guests

Out on the lawn, kids running between adults, drinks circulating, the band warming up.

Guests at the lodge
Family at the lodge

Rob and Jude celebrating their last son finally getting married. Cousin Alex with Aunt Ginger.

Rob and Jude
Cousin Alex with Aunt Ginger

A band played the lodge that afternoon, working through old hard rock classics. Everyone ended up on the dance floor at some point.

On the dance floor
On the dance floor
Chapter IV, Continued

The Toast

Dom Pérignon

Rob had been saving a bottle of 1995 Dom Pérignon for when Chris would finally get married. After three decades, he had basically given up. By the time the cork came out, the wine had aged past its maturity, which we all had a good laugh about.

Made for a great toast anyway.

The toast Rob had been waiting decades to give.

Rob's toast
Rob's toast

This was also where we told everyone Jenna was pregnant. Chris worked it into his speech somewhere near the end, around when he was already running long. Welcoming Jenna into the family, with one more on the way. The room got quiet for half a second. Then it erupted in celebration. Hugs, tears, glasses raised twice.

Jenna and Rob
Chapter IV, Continued

Cake and Dancing

The cake came out late in the evening, after most of the speeches and well into the dancing. Turquoise, with figurines our friends had made by hand on top.

Cake cutting

The band leaned into the seventies. Old hard rock classics. The lodge floor cleared and filled within the first song.

Dancing into the evening
Dancing into the evening

The lodge dance floor, late.

The party kept going deep into the evening. Cousins and uncles on the dance floor, kids asleep on couches, drinks moving in every direction.

Late into the dancing

Cousin Anna belting out Bobbie McGee.

Last group shot of the night, around the fire pit, after the band had packed up and the cake plates were stacked. Someone decided it was a good idea to shotgun a beer.

Group by the firepit
Lakeville to Hertfordshire map
Chapter Five

England

Windsor & Hertfordshire
August 30, 2025
The Invitation
Invitation

Our third celebration was for Jenna's side: her family and closest friends gathered together in the English countryside outside London.

Chapter V, Continued

Windsor

Before the celebration kicked off, we spent a few days in Windsor with our mothers, Jude and Nina, staying at a cottage on Oxford Road. After the pace of the previous months it felt slow and grounded. We walked everywhere, hit the castle, ate long meals, drank in the old high street pubs.

Windsor Castle
The Long Walk
Chapter V, Continued

The Garden, the Venue

The original venue fell through right before the event, which turned out to be a blessing in disguise. Jenna's family stepped in to save the day. Her uncle Michael graciously opened up his home and beautiful garden and worked hard to help set up the event. Her aunt Tina and Nick helped Michael put together a massive marquee and organize all the catering. Her cousin Jess, along with her husband Alex, created beautiful arrangements on the tables.

The week leading up to the event was wet and rainy. On the day itself, the sun broke through the gray clouds. Around forty guests arrived, welcomed in the garden with prosecco and elderflower.

The full garden shot

Dilip's photo shoot

Dilip moved quietly through the garden with his camera, capturing all the magical moments. He shot all day from the edges of the party.

Garden portrait
Garden portrait

Steph, the music

Steph played two sets through the afternoon. Quiet, unhurried acoustic during dinner, then more lifted material once the speeches were done.

The afternoon stretched into hours of speeches, wine, and tea. Long English afternoon energy. Nobody hurried.

Chapter V, Continued

The Cake

Jenna leaning into the cake with the knife. The marquee behind, the guests packed around the table.

Cake cutting

The whole group cheering the cake. Friends had presented the second tour t-shirt, this time using Taylor Swift's Eras Tour as inspiration.

The group cheering the cake

The moment the cake was eaten and the music stopped, it began to pour. The party closed down on cue. We had a flight to catch in the morning to start the honeymoon in Italy.

The Tour Shirts

They called it The Wedding Eras Tour. Canada, USA, UK, Italy.

Hertfordshire to Venice map
Chapter Six

Italy

Honeymoon
August 31 — September 10, 2025

We booked business class on British Airways for the honeymoon. We got on the plane and discovered that BA's business class on this route was economy seats with a curtain down the middle, so we couldn't even sit next to each other. We made the best of it and toasted to the start of the honeymoon from opposite sides of the cabin.

Toasting at the start of the honeymoon
On the flight to Venice

Still tired from the UK garden party, but already on a high, we landed in Venice the next morning to begin the honeymoon.

Flying into Venice
The driving route through Italy
Chapter VI, Continued

Venice

We took a private water taxi from the airport into the lagoon, watching the skyline of domes and bell towers come into focus across the green water.

Our first day was for walking. We wound through the narrow alleys, paused at small piazzas, and let the slower pace catch up with us.

Venice arrival
Walking through Venice

One of the small bridges over the side canals. The kind of view you walk past a hundred times in Venice without registering, then suddenly stop for.

We stayed at a beautiful Airbnb right on a canal, very centrally located. Out the window: gondolas, water traffic, morning light catching the buildings across the way.

Our Airbnb on the canal
The view from our Airbnb

The Piazza San Marco and the San Marco Basilica, then the Doge's Palace.

Jenna at Piazza San Marco

Inside the Basilica di San Marco. Gold mosaic ceilings. The whole interior glows even on a cloudy day.

Inside San Marco
Inside San Marco

The gold mosaics of San Marco, lit dimly from above. Every surface decorated. Hard to take in all at once.

Gold mosaics

The Peggy Guggenheim

We spent an afternoon at the Peggy Guggenheim Collection, right on the canal. Fantastic art tucked into a small palazzo, with sculptures out on the terrace facing the water.

The Peggy Guggenheim on the canal
Inside the Peggy Guggenheim

San Giorgio Maggiore

We didn't get to step inside San Giorgio Maggiore on this trip, but we boated past it. Palladio's white marble church on a small island across from San Marco.

Boating past San Giorgio Maggiore

Wandering through the rest of the city. Bridges, side canals, masks in shop windows, espresso standing up at the bar.

Walking around Venice
Walking around Venice

Threading the canals.

The Gritti Palace

Drinks at the Gritti Palace, Hemingway's old Venice haunt. The marble was original, the waiters moved like they'd been there forty years, and the Film Festival was just beginning to spill its glamour through the room.

At the Gritti Palace

Dinner at La Zucca, an outstanding Italian vegetarian meal in a tiny dining room off a side canal. The kind of place you have to know about.

At La Zucca
At La Zucca

Sunset, at the start of the trip. Already we were amazed by this magical place and vowed to come back.

Venice sunset
Venice sunset
Chapter VI, Continued

Lake Garda — Sirmione

From Venice we drove west to Sirmione, at the south end of Lake Garda, and stayed at Hotel Flaminia at the base of the Castello Scaligero di Sirmione. After being around water in Venice but not in it, the Lake District was a relief. We finally got to swim in the pristine lake.

Lake Garda
Sirmione castle

Dinner on the lakefront in Sirmione, the castle lit up across the water. Handmade pasta covered in local truffle, a glass of Amarone della Valpolicella, the kind of dinner you remember years later.

Dinner
By the lake

Climbing the castle towers, swimming on the beaches, eating slowly.

Castle towers
Sirmione

Walking the medieval streets of Sirmione. Stone walls, narrow lanes, gelato stops, lake views breaking through at every corner.

Medieval streets of Sirmione
Chapter VI, Continued

Verona

We drove on to Verona, this classic city we'd all heard about so many times. Instead of queueing for Juliet's balcony, we headed north into the Valpolicella hills for an afternoon of wine at Signorvino.

An afternoon in the Valpolicella hills, in a cellar dug into the slope. Wines, fine cheeses, and a long view back down the valley.

Valpolicella hills
Wine tasting

Worth every cliché.

In the evening, we took our seats inside the Arena di Verona, the ancient Roman amphitheater in the center of the city, to watch the opera Carmen. The stage built into ancient walls, seats on stone, sky overhead. Our first opera ever, and probably the most magical Italian setting we could have imagined. Two thousand years of stone, opera, the Italian sky. It hit all at once.

Verona arena
Opera at the arena
Chapter VI, Continued

Modena

Jenna walking the cobblestone street to Osteria Francescana. The signage is restrained. Easy to walk past if you don't know what you're looking for.

Walking to the restaurant

We arrived in Modena and went straight to Osteria Francescana. Three Michelin stars. We worked through the tasting menu slowly , savouring every bite.

The front of Osteria Francescana

World-famous chef Massimo Bottura came out to talk to us at the end of the meal. He was excited that we had chosen to bring our baby, still in Jenna's tummy, to enjoy his food. An unexpected treat.

With Massimo Bottura

The dining room at Osteria Francescana. Quiet, warm, dressed-down for a three-star.

Inside the restaurant

Each course at Osteria Francescana arrived with its own short story from the server. The tasting menu ran almost three hours and we kept wanting it to continue.

Tasting menu
Tasting menu

The tasting menu moved through about a dozen courses. We laughed quietly at how good the food was.

A course at Osteria Francescana
Chapter VI, Continued

Massimo's Villa, and the Agriturismo

After lunch we headed to Massimo's villa, Casa Maria Luigia, for a private balsamic vinegar tasting. We came away with a real sense of how deep balsamic goes. Different woods, different ages, the slow concentration over decades. We never thought we'd buy a hundred-euro balsamic vinegar, and we're very glad we did. It's delicious.

At Massimo's villa

From the villa we drove to Agriturismo La Vedetta in the hills outside town for two nights. La Vedetta is itself a working balsamic winery, which makes sense for the region. Modena is the epicenter of balsamic in the world, and between Massimo's tasting and the days at the agriturismo, we got a proper immersion.

Jenna in front of the house at La Vedetta

Among the olive trees at La Vedetta. Olive trees, vineyards, and the balsamic cellars all on the same property. We enjoyed another private vinegar tasting.

Olive trees
Olive trees

The olive grove behind the agriturismo, late afternoon.

The olive grove

We swam in the pool, walked the vineyards, and took a pasta-making class with the family that turned out to be one of the highlights of the trip.

At La Vedetta
Pasta class

Eating the tortelloni we had folded that morning. The family ate with us at the long kitchen table.

Tortelloni
At the table
Chapter VI, Continued

Ferrari Country

Modena is also Ferrari country. We went to the epicenter. We tried to talk our way into a test drive, then opted to avoid the unnecessary speeding tickets, which we somehow still managed to get later in our VW Polo.

The Ferrari Museum in Maranello. Decades of road cars, race cars, and prototypes under one roof.

The Ferrari Museum

Back at the agriturismo for the harvest. The family had us crushing grapes by hand in the old wooden press, the first step in the balsamic-making process.

A candlelit dinner under the olive trees rounded out the night. Our last in Modena.

Candlelit dinner under the olive trees
Chapter VI, Continued

Bologna

A stop in Bologna for the food, often called the capital of Italian cuisine. Chris ate a traditional Bolognese, vegetarian of course. Jenna had the real thing. The two towers in the city center, leaning against each other.

The towers of Bologna
Chapter VI, Continued

Florence

Florence was a place Chris had spent a semester in twenty-two years earlier, and this was his first time back. It was great to be able to welcome Jenna into a city that is essentially an open-air museum. We stayed close to where Chris had lived, right by Piazza della Signoria, where Michelangelo's David was originally located.

The view from above, with the Duomo rising over the terracotta rooftops.

The city of Florence

We spent a day at the Palazzo Vecchio and climbing the Campanile. A walking tour through the streets.

Florence street
Climbing the Campanile

In front of the David. The original lives at the Accademia now, but the copy stands where it always stood, in the Piazza della Signoria, right where Chris had lived twenty-two years earlier.

Florence walking tour
In front of the David

Crossing the Ponte Vecchio in late light.

Ponte Vecchio
Chapter VI, Continued

The Tuscan Hills, by E-bike

The next day we rented e-bikes and rode down through the city, across the Arno, and up into the Tuscan hills for a tasting at Lanciola.

Lunch at the winery in the Tuscan hills. Long table, local salumi, big glasses of Chianti, a perfect taste of Tuscany.

Winery lunch
Overlooking Florence

Riding back from the Tuscan hills.

The e-bikes earned their keep.

From the hills above Florence, looking back across the city to the Duomo.

From the hills above Florence

A fantastic ending to the first part of our Italian leg. We had seen, tasted, and experienced so much in such a short period of time.

Chapter VI, Continued

Ora d'Aria

A long dinner at Ora d’Aria, the Michelin spot tucked off Piazza della Signoria. The right note to close Florence on.

Ora d'Aria
Ora d'Aria
Florence to Catania map
Chapter Seven

Sicily

The Buddymoon
September 10 — 15, 2025
The Invitation
Invitation

From Florence we flew to Catania, where the rest of the friends were starting to congregate for our buddymoon. This had originally been planned as our one celebration, but as the year unfolded it ended up being the closing celebration of the wedding tour.

Chapter VII, Continued

Catania

Catania felt like the Sicily of movies and reputation. Very different from the polished tourist circuit of northern Italy. Raw, hot, full of energy and authenticity. Vespas everywhere, espresso bars on every corner, fish markets shouting in the morning.

Dinner at Mì Cumpari Turiddu, which roughly translates to friends closer than family. A fitting name for the restaurant where the buddymoon started. Drinks after, in town, where we bumped into the first of the wedding party arriving.

Dinner at Mì Cumpari Turiddu
Aperitifs in town
Chapter VII, Continued

Plemmirio — Four Villas

The next day the guests checked into the four villas we had booked in Plemmirio, just outside Syracuse. Originally we had plans further south in one large villa that fell through. In a way it worked out better to have multiple options. Different groups settled into different places, with everyone coming together for the various activities, starting with the welcome dinner.

One of the villa pools
The villa pool

The main villa overlooked the water. The others were spread along the coast within walking distance of each other.

The main villa overlooking the water
The view from the villas
Chapter VII, Continued

Welcome Dinner — Varco23

The welcome dinner took place at the beach club Varco23. We had one long table outside, with food presented family style down the middle. After dinner, we moved to the dance floor where Paul DJed a great set. It was a great way to welcome the group to Sicily and make introductions over wine and limoncellos.

Welcome dinner at Varco23
Paul DJing the welcome dinner

Welcome dinner at Varco23, Paul on the decks.

Friends rolling in from eight countries. Some who hadn't seen each other in years, others meeting for the first time.

Welcoming everyone to Sicily
After-party at the villas

The party continued back at the villas.

Chapter VII, Continued

The Wine Tour

The next day was the wine tour at Cantine Pupillo, a castle winery in the hills above Syracuse. Everyone got the full experience of Sicily through wine and food, all curated for us, even though many were worse for wear after the previous night.

On the wine tour
Cantine Pupillo

The main tasting of the afternoon. Sicilian reds and whites, each with a plate of local cheese to match.

Wine tasting
At the tasting

Lunch after. Long table, big plates, more wine. An authentic Sicilian afternoon meal that ran for hours.

Wine tour lunch
Wine tour lunch

The cellar where it all ages. Then everyone headed back to the villas to relax before the night.

At Cantine Pupillo
Chapter VII, Continued

Ortigia — Zefiro Solarium

That evening we met on the island of Ortigia, at the heart of ancient Syracuse. We reserved several long tables at the trendy Zefiro Solarium, right on the water. Everyone showed up looking beautiful and settled into the rhythm of the trip.

Downtown Syracuse
Arriving at Zefiro

Dinner at Zefiro Solarium on Ortigia, long tables right on the water. The restaurant was set against the lights of the historic old town.

Dinner at Zefiro Solarium
The whole table at Zefiro

Speeches between courses from people who knew us at every stage. High school, college, Vancouver, the years in between.

Speeches
Speeches

More wine than was strictly necessary.

Thirty-two people from eight countries, half of them just meeting for the first time. It was heartwarming to witness new connections being made.

Dinner conversations
Dinner conversations

After dinner, we went out on the town. Groups peeled off to different bars across the old city. Others made their way back to the villas.

Out on the town in Ortigia
Out on the town in Ortigia
Chapter VII, Continued

Boat Day — Maeva Star

The next day was the crown jewel of the trip. A 75-foot yacht, the Maeva Star, launched from Ortigia and took us around the Plemmirio marine reserve. Beautiful emerald green waters, sea caves, sea cliffs. Supposedly the mythical location in Homer's Odyssey where the Sirens tried to lure Odysseus in with their songs.

The Maeva Star

Smaller groups breaking off across the deck. Some up front in the sun, some at the rail, some near the speakers at the stern.

Groups on the deck
Groups on the deck

The two of us off the back of the boat, the water clear enough to see the rocks below. Swimming in the marine reserve, the water was a perfect temperature.

Off the back of the boat
Swimming in the marine reserve

Mid-afternoon on the boat. Music pumping, half the crowd in the water, the other half passing drinks down from the upper deck.

The captain swung us in close to one of the sea cliffs for the big group shot.

Mid-afternoon on the boat
Big group on the boat near the cliffs

More of the crew on deck. Drinks in hand, friends draped over the railings, somebody always queuing up the next song on the speakers.

Friends on deck
Friends on deck

Music, dancing, eating, drinking, swimming, jumping off the back of the boat. Hard to imagine a better day.

A truly special day in our lives.

The final big group picture
Chapter VII, Continued

Sunday at the Sea

Plemmirio Reserve Beach Club

For our last day, we booked out the Plemmirio Reserve Beach Club for the official ceremony of the wedding tour. A long afternoon lunch, drinks, toasts, and one last cake. After three full days together, this was the version of the wedding party that had completely melded. Former strangers, now best friends.

Plemmirio Reserve Beach Club
Jenna's college friends

Lounging on the deck chairs, swimming in the sea, and dancing until the sun set.

Dancing under the gazebos
Dancing

A special mention to the members of the wedding party who made it onto the tour multiple times. Nate and Rosie W attended three of the four events, rocking their bespoke tour shirts.

Nate and Rosie at Plemmirio
The group at Plemmirio

We danced to the traditional Sicilian wedding song from the Godfather. Gifts were given. The party ramped up.

The Onesies

The onesies were the gift.

Halfway through the afternoon, Max and Simone disappeared. They reappeared in matching 80s ski onesies, marching down the steps to cheesy euro après music. They had prepared the dance number and ski suits as gifts for us, which we both wore, and somehow ended up swimming in the sea.

The moment the onesies appeared.

The pool party afterward at one of the villas. The afternoon kept rolling into the evening, and the evening rolled into the next morning.

The pool party
Closing party at the villa

Everyone was fully connected at this point. The full party went well into the next morning, capping off one of the best events of our lives.

Chapter Eight

Taormina

La Dolce Far Niente
September 15 — 17, 2025
Hotel Villa Belvedere

After Sicily wrapped, the friends flew home. We drove an hour up the coast to Taormina for two quiet days at one of the nicest hotels we stayed in all honeymoon, perched above the Mediterranean with Mount Etna out the window. Taormina is the location of White Lotus Season 2, part of our inspiration for a party in Sicily. And now that we were finally in this stunning town on the cliffs, we had time to process the amazing adventure.

Chapter VIII, Continued

Mornings

Mornings on the pool patio with coffee and slow, wandering afternoons.

Pool patio
Coffee with a view
Chapter VIII, Continued

The Greek Theater

An afternoon climb to the ancient Greek theater above town. The seats face Etna across the bay. They have been pointed at that view for thousands of years.

The Greek theater

From the high terraces above the theater. The coast of Sicily curving south, the Ionian Sea catching the late-afternoon light.

Above the theater
Looking south
Chapter VIII, Continued

The Town

Truffle treats, pistachio everything, gelato in narrow streets. Sampling some of the local wine, Parmigiano-style cheeses, and original Sicilian bites along the way. Wandering with no plan, ducking into shops, eating standing up at counters.

In the town
In the town

Long dinners trying to wrap our heads around the year. Vancouver, Squamish, Connecticut, England, Italy, Sicily. The last six months had been a whirlwind.

Sunset, ending Taormina

Closing out the year above the Mediterranean.

Catania to Vancouver map
Epilogue

Summer Bella

February 5, 2026

We flew back to Vancouver from Catania. After a long flight with a layover in Germany, the wedding tour was over.

Chris's hand on Jenna's belly in the English garden
Epilogue, Continued

Coming Down

The first week home was strange, but it was nice to be home. After a year of countdown lists, we had only one big thing in the calendar.

A quiet morning back home, the pace finally slowing.

A quiet moment back home
Epilogue, Continued

The Whole Time

Through every event of the year, Jenna had been pregnant. The garden party in Vancouver. The helicopter and the glacier. Connecticut. The garden party in the UK. Venice, Modena, Florence. The buddymoon in Sicily. Taormina.

Every flight, every dinner, every dance floor, our baby was with us the whole time.

Pregnancy progression
Late pregnancy

We told a few people in Connecticut, during Chris's speech, with the Dom Pérignon. We told more in England. By Sicily, all our closest friends and family knew. We never made a formal announcement. The trip was its own announcement.

After the celebrations the pace slowed but Jenna kept moving. Hikes, dinners, weekends away with friends, the seawall in the rain. Active and healthy the whole way through. New Year's at the Nest was the last big gathering before the final stretch.

Epilogue, Continued

February 5, 2026

Summer Bella Winters was born on a Thursday morning in Vancouver. Eight pounds, ten ounces. A big beautiful baby.

We had picked the name Summer Winters well before the birth. The middle name came after we finally met her. Bella. An ode to our time in Italy and to the beautiful girl in front of us.

Summer

The wedding tour had a route, a guest list, a structure. This did not. We took her home from the hospital and figured it out one hour at a time.

A year earlier, we had decided to bring the party to the people instead of asking everyone to come to one. Honestly, there were moments in the lead-up where we wondered if we'd taken on too much. By the end, we had three amazing wedding celebrations and an unforgettable buddymoon. Without a shadow of a doubt, it was the best year of our lives. We can't wait to share this story with Summer, when she is old enough to ask how we got here.

Now there were three of us.

The three of us
With thanks

The People Who Made This Year

We could not have done these celebrations without the incredible help and support from family and friends. There were so many people who contributed in big and small ways. This is a short list, by event, of the key people who helped the most.

Vancouver

People

Vendors

Squamish

People

Vendors

Connecticut

People

Stays

England

People

Stays

Italy

People

Restaurants

Hotels and stays

Wine and culture

Sicily

People

Restaurants and beach clubs

Wine and boat

Stays

Everyone else

We are so grateful for everyone who volunteered their time and energy in ways big and small to make each event happen. The family members who flew in from across oceans. The friends who came to one event, or two, or four, or all of them. The ones who couldn't make it but sent the message. The chosen family.

This year happened because of all of you. Thank you.

Ti amo.

Vancouver, May 18, 2026.

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